Damianaphrodisia

Mother,daughter, sister, friend, counselor, "witch"-doctor,teacher, comforter, nutritionalist, cook, house keeper, herbalist, tree-hugger,old-fashioned,passionate,free-spirited, responsible, compassionate, lover,dark hippie,photographer,explorer,rocker,romantic,art lover, walking self-help book lol...

I wrote this a while back...

I don't think I'm better then anyone. I don't think I'm more advanced. I don't think I know it all. I just like figuring things out. Problem solving- understanding someones point of view and trying to come up with a solution. I don't mean to be misses fixer of everything; it's just that I've been working in customer service for 8 years and now I kind of do it automatically. It was my job to make customers happy and finding a reasonable solution to their problems. I'm working on this within myself. I can't seem to just kick back and smile or laugh. I don't know how to lighten up sometimes. Most times actually. I do think too much and I am always looking for advice and I try to learn what I can from others.


Hello, my name is Savannah. I know what I want from life and what qualities I look for in a man. The question is , what do you want? I read so many headlines that say, “I just want to have fun and be happy’ That’s what everyone wants, but everyone has a different definition. What do you consider fun? What makes you happy? You want a girlfriend? You want a life partner? A one night stand? Or are you not sure and your just lonely looking to connect, like the rest of the human race? No one should get offended by anything I say because its called the human condition. We all go through some of the same emotions and steps through life. You accept it, learn, adapt and better yourself or you refuse to acknowledge that you have faults that you don’t like and never get to know the most important person in the world. Yourself. I know guys, you don’t know what girls want, but you know, they don’t know what they want either. You want security but you can only find that within yourself. Every man and woman wants someone who is secure within themselves, confident but humble. Yes muscles are awesome but only if you are humble about them. The muscles I’m attracted to are muscles earned by your occupation, not by lifting weights in the gym. You want that awesome body? Go outside, cut some wood for a fire. Build a house. Train your body to look and work for what you love to do. Don’t train your body to pick up weights. From the time you are a child, you are training your body and mind by how you are growing up. You sit on the couch watching tv, guess what? Your gonna have a body and mind trained, just for that. Go outside, explore, learn, climb a tree, swim, hike a mountain. That’s strength which also teaches self control and discipline. Yes I know, going to the gym and working out is hard too and living in todays society, who has time to find a mountain to hike? What ever job you have, you can train your body to fit your life style. I stand all day, taking orders and I want a lean, sexy body like a dancer. I have no time to take dancing lessons so through the day, I’m constantly using my muscles and working out. Learning to be quick and efficient. I started back when I was 19 and now I do it without even thinking because my body does it automatically. Learning is so awesome that way. Everything is baby steps, being positive and most important, PATIENCE! Lol You look in the mirror and don’t like what you see. Write on your mirror with a dry erase marker. What do you want to see in yourself? I use to see an ugly, useless, depressed person in the mirror and I hated myself. It’s taken years but all we have is time. I saw my good features and embraced them and I saw everything I thought was ugly and loved them any way because you know, those flaws make you the beautiful, unique person that you are. My mirror has the words -strong, -confident-beautiful-determined-free spirited-passionate-sensual-honest and empowered. I wrote them over a period of time and add to the list when I see another trait I want. Building your own personality. Yeah my dad is an alcoholic and my family has mental disorders and that’s ok because you are you and not them. You are who you want to be so guess what. You’ve got to figure it out, all by yourself. Once you know who you are and who you wanna be, you will have an energy that will draw ppl to you and it feels awesome when you can show other ppl the beauty within themselves. You will never know everything about yourself and yea, its ok if you change your mind about something. Its not quitting, its learning. I have a few traits I have erased from my mirror because I’ve learn that those traits cause me or other more harm then good. Being compassionate is a hard thing to be. Its hard on your soul. The definition is showing sympathy and wanting to help. The way I use to help hurt me bad so I’m trying to find other ways to help. A word is a word, but a definition is so much more. Everyone has a different perception or definition of words so putting the right word and asking yourself the right questions is a big step. Life is about connections, lessons, emotions, experiences, influences, inspiration. There is no such thing as trying or quitting. There is learning and its not quitting its about coming to the realization that you don’t want what you were working toward. Never force anything. Just go with the flow, keep your eyes open and you will see how everything happens for a reason. My definition of everything happens for a reason is you learn from everything if you want to. If you don’t want to then yea, life is going to be a struggle. Sorry I like to write. It’s one of my passions. I drive ppl nuts sometimes because I have a solution for every question. My solution for that is don’t ask questions if you don’t want an answer lol

Current Residence: Carlsbad, NM
Favourite style of art: Photography
Personal Quote: Life is not about finding yourself. It is about creating yourself.